My Family Devotion

Genesis 26:18-35

Wells and Bitter Rivalry

18Isaac reopened the wells that had been dug in the days of his father Abraham, which the Philistines had stopped up after Abraham died. And he gave these wells the same names his father had given them.

19Then Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and found a well of fresh water there.

20But the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with Isaac’s herdsmen and said, “The water is ours!” So he named the well Esek, because they contended with him.

21Then they dug another well and quarreled over that one also; so he named it Sitnah.

22He moved on from there and dug another well, and they did not quarrel over it. He named it Rehoboth and said, “At last the LORD has made room for us, and we will be fruitful in the land.”

23From there Isaac went up to Beersheba,

24and that night the LORD appeared to him and said, “I am the God of your father Abraham. Do not be afraid, for I am with you. I will bless you and multiply your descendants for the sake of My servant Abraham.”

25So Isaac built an altar there and called on the name of the LORD, and he pitched his tent there. His servants also dug a well there.

26Later, Abimelech came to Isaac from Gerar, with Ahuzzath his adviser and Phicol the commander of his army.

27“Why have you come to me?” Isaac asked them. “You hated me and sent me away.”

28“We can plainly see that the LORD has been with you,” they replied. “We recommend that there should now be an oath between us and you. Let us make a covenant with you

29that you will not harm us, just as we have not harmed you but have done only good to you, sending you on your way in peace. And now you are blessed by the LORD.”

30So Isaac prepared a feast for them, and they ate and drank.

31And they got up early the next morning and swore an oath to each other. Then Isaac sent them on their way, and they left him in peace.

32On that same day, Isaac’s servants came and told him about the well they had dug. “We have found water!” they told him.

33So he called it Shibah, and to this day the name of the city is Beersheba.

34When Esau was forty years old, he took as his wives Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite and Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite.

35And they brought grief to Isaac and Rebekah.

Berean Standard Bible

Isaac reopens the wells that Abraham's servants had dug and that the Philistines filled after Abraham died. He gives the wells the names his father gave them. His servants dig in the valley and find a well of flowing water, but the herders of Gerar quarrel with Isaac's herders and claim the water.

Isaac names the well Esek, meaning contention, because they contended with him. His servants dig another well, and the neighbors quarrel over that one too. Isaac names it Sitnah, meaning hostility. Instead of turning the disputes into a fight, Isaac moves away and has another well dug. This time no one quarrels, and he names it Rehoboth, saying that the LORD has made room for them and they will be fruitful in the land.

Isaac goes from there to Beersheba. The LORD appears to him that night and says, “I am the God of Abraham your father. Fear not, for I am with you and will bless you and multiply your offspring.” Isaac builds an altar, calls on the LORD's name, pitches his tent, and his servants dig a well.

Abimelech comes with his adviser and commander. They say they have plainly seen that the LORD has been with Isaac, so they ask for an oath that Isaac will do them no harm. Isaac makes a feast, and they swear an oath of peace. His servants then tell him about the well.

Not every conflict must be won by holding the contested ground. Isaac's patience is not passivity; he keeps working, moves when necessary, and receives peace when it becomes possible.

Questions

1 What happened to the first wells Isaac reopened?

AnswerThe herders of Gerar quarrelled over them and claimed the water.

2 What did Isaac name the well of contention?

AnswerHe named it Esek, the well of contention, because the herders quarrelled over it.

3 What did Rehoboth mean to Isaac?

AnswerIt meant that the LORD had made room for Isaac and his household, so they could live and become fruitful in the land.

4 What agreement did Isaac and Abimelech make?

AnswerThey shared a feast and swore an oath of peace.

What This Means for Us

Some disputes are worth pursuing, and some are better left without a showdown. Ask whether winning a resource will preserve peace or only deepen hostility. Keep doing honest work, move when wisdom requires it, and make peace without pretending the earlier conflict never occurred.

Prayer

God who makes room, give us discernment in conflicts over resources and rights. Keep us from confusing stubbornness with courage. Help us work faithfully, yield when peace requires it, and accept good agreements without carrying old hostility into every new conversation. Amen.