My Family Devotion

Genesis 35:16-29

Rachel Dies on the Road

16Later, they set out from Bethel, and while they were still some distance from Ephrath, Rachel began to give birth, and her labor was difficult.

17During her severe labor, the midwife said to her, “Do not be afraid, for you are having another son.”

18And with her last breath—for she was dying—she named him Ben-oni. But his father called him Benjamin.

19So Rachel died and was buried on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem).

20Jacob set up a pillar on her grave; it marks Rachel’s tomb to this day.

21Israel again set out and pitched his tent beyond the Tower of Eder.

22While Israel was living in that region, Reuben went in and slept with his father’s concubine Bilhah, and Israel heard about it. Jacob had twelve sons:

23The sons of Leah were Reuben the firstborn of Jacob, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar, and Zebulun.

24The sons of Rachel were Joseph and Benjamin.

25The sons of Rachel’s maidservant Bilhah were Dan and Naphtali.

26And the sons of Leah’s maidservant Zilpah were Gad and Asher. These are the sons of Jacob, who were born to him in Paddan-aram.

27Jacob returned to his father Isaac at Mamre, near Kiriath-arba (that is, Hebron), where Abraham and Isaac had stayed.

28And Isaac lived 180 years.

29Then he breathed his last and died and was gathered to his people, old and full of years. And his sons Esau and Jacob buried him.

Berean Standard Bible

Jacob and his household leave Bethel. Rachel goes into labor, and the delivery is hard. The midwife tells her not to be afraid because she has another son. Rachel is dying, and with her last breath she names the child Ben-oni, “son of my sorrow.” Jacob names him Benjamin, “son of the right hand.” The two names preserve both the pain of Rachel's death and the child's continuing place in the family.

Rachel is buried on the way to Ephrath, which is Bethlehem. Jacob sets up a pillar over her grave. The family does not pass through this loss without marking it. A mother dies, a child survives, and a father gives the child another name while carrying grief on the road.

The story then says that Israel moves on and pitches his tent beyond Migdal-eder. Reuben sleeps with Bilhah, his father's concubine, and Israel hears of it. The verse is brief, but the act violates a family relationship and abuses a woman who has less power. The text records it without approving it, and the later story will show that Reuben's action damages his standing.

The passage lists Jacob's twelve sons, born through Leah, Rachel, Bilhah, and Zilpah. They are the sons who will become the tribes of Israel. The list comes after death and betrayal, reminding us that a family's future can grow out of a history that contains love, exploitation, grief, and failure.

Isaac dies at one hundred eighty years. Esau and Jacob bury him together. Another burial brings two estranged brothers into the same place, even when their families remain complicated.

Questions

1 What happened to Rachel?

AnswerRachel died while giving birth to her second son.

2 What did Rachel name the child?

AnswerRachel named him Ben-oni.

3 What did Jacob name him?

AnswerJacob named him Benjamin.

4 Who buried Isaac?

AnswerEsau and Jacob buried their father Isaac.

What This Means for Us

Grief can travel with us while life continues. Mark losses, tell the truth about what happened, and care for the child or family member left behind. Also name sexual exploitation clearly when it appears in a family story. Kinship does not make abuse less serious, and a future generation should not have to carry silence as its inheritance.

Prayer

God who stays near in childbirth, death, and family shame, comfort those who lose someone they love. Give caregivers strength and children protection. Help us honor the dead, name abuse without hiding it, and carry grief honestly while making a safer future for those who remain. Amen.