My Family Devotion

James 3:7-12

No One Can Tame It

7All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man,

8but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

9With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness.

10Out of the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, this should not be!

11Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?

12My brothers, can a fig tree grow olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.

Berean Standard Bible

James has called the tongue a fire. Now he presses a harder claim, that it is the one thing no one can bring under control. Humanity has learned to tame nearly everything, he observes, every kind of beast and bird and reptile and creature of the sea, all of them tamed and kept tamed across the generations. And then he names the exception.

but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

Every wild thing has been brought under a human hand except this one, the tongue. He calls it restless, never content to stay put, and full of deadly poison. The claim is meant to be total. James does not say the tongue is merely hard to tame, or tamed only by the disciplined few. He says no one does it, himself included, and that admission is the honest ground the rest of the passage stands on. Then he names the exact form the wildness takes.

With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness.

The same mouth praises God and then tears into a person, and the person torn into bears God's own image. Out of one opening come both the blessing and the cursing, and James breaks off the argument to say it flatly: my brothers, this should not be. He does not explain it away or call it a small inconsistency. He refuses it outright, and then lets nature carry the rest of his point.

Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring?

A spring gives one kind of water. A fig tree does not grow olives, and a grapevine does not bear figs. Each of these gives what it is, one thing from one source, while the tongue pours out both blessing and cursing from a single mouth. That double output is not a clever trick. It is a sign that something at the spring itself is wrong, and James lets the contradiction sit there, for a reader to notice in his own mouth.

How We Know

"Made in God's likeness" is not a phrase James coins. It reaches back to the first page of Scripture. Genesis 1:26 has God say, "Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness," and Genesis 1:27 says God created man in his own image. So when James objects that we curse people made in God's likeness, he is standing on the creation account: the people spoken against carry the image God gave them at the start, which is the whole reason cursing them clashes with blessing him. The echo is close to the wording of Genesis 1, which strongly supports reading James this way, though he cites no chapter and expects readers who know it.

Questions

1 What can people tame, and what can they not?

AnswerEvery kind of animal, bird, reptile, and sea creature has been tamed by human hands, but no one can tame the tongue. James calls it a restless evil full of deadly poison, the one wild thing that stays wild.

2 What contradiction shows the tongue is untamed?

AnswerThat the same mouth both blesses God and curses people. A believer praises the Lord and then turns and tears into someone made in God's likeness, and James says the two coming from one mouth is proof the thing is out of control.

3 What do the spring and the fig tree show?

AnswerThat each of James's examples gives one thing from one source. A spring does not run both fresh and salt, and a fig tree bears only figs, so the tongue pouring out blessing and cursing from one mouth stands out as wrong.

4 Why does it matter that the cursed person is made in God's likeness?

AnswerBecause the person cursed bears God's own image. That is the reason James gives: it is inconsistent to bless God and curse the ones made in his likeness, and the image they carry is what makes the cursing wrong.

What This Means for Us

Be honest about the gap in this house between the words you use toward God and the words you use toward each other, the praise on the way into church and the sharp tone on the way home. Name one relationship where your blessing and your cursing come from the same mouth. Ask God to work at the spring, not just the words, because James traces the problem past the tongue to the source behind it, and only God reaches that far down.

Prayer

Lord and Father, we praise you with the same mouth we use to wound the people you made in your image, and we know it should not be so. Forgive the poison we have let loose. Reach past our words to the spring they come from, and make it clean, so that what flows out of us is blessing and not the opposite. Amen.