Ruth 3:7-13
Spread the Corner of Your Garment
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7After Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain. Then Ruth went in secretly, uncovered his feet, and lay down.
8At midnight, Boaz was startled, turned over, and there lying at his feet was a woman!
9“Who are you?” he asked. “I am your servant Ruth,” she replied. “Spread the corner of your garment over me, for you are a kinsman-redeemer.”
10Then Boaz said, “May the LORD bless you, my daughter. You have shown more kindness now than before, because you have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor.
11And now do not be afraid, my daughter. I will do for you whatever you request, since all my fellow townspeople know that you are a woman of noble character.
12Yes, it is true that I am a kinsman-redeemer, but there is a redeemer nearer than I.
13Stay here tonight, and in the morning, if he wants to redeem you, good. Let him redeem you. But if he does not want to redeem you, as surely as the LORD lives, I will. Now lie here until morning.”
Berean Standard Bible
Read aloud
At midnight, Boaz wakes with a start and finds a woman at his feet. He asks who she is. Ruth gives her name and makes a request: “Spread the corner of your garment over me, for you are a kinsman-redeemer.” She asks him to accept the family responsibility that will be worked out in marriage.
Boaz answers with a blessing. He calls her choice kindness because she has not pursued younger men, whether rich or poor. He assures her that the townspeople know her noble character and tells her not to fear.
Then he names an obstacle: another redeemer is nearer. His willingness to act does not cancel that man's prior place. He will give the nearer relative the opportunity in the morning, and if that man declines, Boaz swears by the living LORD that he will act himself.
Ruth receives both reassurance and an honest limit on what can be promised that night. Boaz does not hide the complication to make his answer easier to hear. The request will be taken seriously, and the other person's claim will be taken seriously too.
Questions
1 How does Ruth answer when Boaz asks who she is?
AnswerShe identifies herself and asks him to spread his garment over her because he is a kinsman-redeemer. Her request looks toward marriage and family protection.
2 What does Boaz say about her character?
AnswerHe says his fellow townspeople know she is a woman of noble character and praises the kindness of her choice.
3 What prevents him from settling the matter immediately?
AnswerA nearer redeemer has the prior opportunity. Boaz promises to act if that man will not.
4 How can we reassure someone without promising more than we can deliver?
AnswerWe can say clearly what we will do and explain what still depends on someone else. Honest limits make a promise more trustworthy.
What This Means for Us
A kind answer can include a complication. If another person's rights or responsibilities affect a promise, explain them rather than keeping them out of the conversation. Boaz's willingness is joined to accountability before the LORD. We can also seek a good outcome while remaining honest about the steps required to reach it.
Prayer
Lord, make our promises both generous and truthful. Help us respect others' responsibilities and rights, and give us patience to act faithfully when the honest path takes longer. Amen.