Song of Solomon 8:8-14

My Own Vineyard Is Mine to Give

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8We have a little sister, and her breasts are not yet grown. What shall we do for our sister on the day she is spoken for?

9If she is a wall, we will build a tower of silver upon her. If she is a door, we will enclose her with panels of cedar.

10I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. So I have become in his eyes like one who brings peace.

11Solomon had a vineyard in Baal-hamon. He leased it to the tenants. For its fruit, each was to bring a thousand shekels of silver.

12But my own vineyard is mine to give; the thousand shekels are for you, O Solomon, and two hundred are for those who tend its fruit.

13You who dwell in the gardens, my companions are listening for your voice. Let me hear it!

14Come away, my beloved, and be like a gazelle or a young stag on the mountains of spices.

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The final unit introduces a little sister whose future is being discussed. Her breasts are not yet grown, and the family asks what they should do when someone speaks for her. The question is about preparation and protection. The young woman is not treated as a prize to be handed over without thought.

Two possibilities are offered. If she is a wall, they will build a tower of silver on her. If she is a door, they will enclose her with cedar panels. The images are difficult and their exact meaning is not explained, but the contrast is clear enough to hear. The family is considering how to guard and honor her as she approaches adulthood.

The Shulammite answers that she is a wall and that her breasts are like towers. She has become in the man's eyes one who brings peace. She speaks of herself as someone with strength and maturity, not as someone waiting for other people to decide what she is.

The poem then contrasts Solomon's vineyard at Baal-hamon with her own vineyard. Solomon's vineyard is leased to tenants who owe a thousand shekels for its fruit, while her own vineyard belongs to her to give. She assigns the thousand shekels to Solomon and two hundred to those who tend the fruit. The comparison places the king’s income beside her insistence that her own vineyard is hers to give. Her love cannot be reduced to what someone else can earn from it.

Near the end, a voice addresses the one who dwells in the gardens and asks to hear her. The woman answers with an invitation for him to come away and be like a gazelle on the mountains of spices. The ending is not a tidy explanation. It is a continuing call between two people who still desire one another.

The sister’s future, the woman’s answer, and the continuing invitation bring the book to a close. Family concern has a place, and so does the woman’s own voice. Genesis 24 offers another scene in which a family asks a young woman to speak: Rebekah is asked whether she will go with Abraham’s servant, and she answers, “I will go.” Listening is part of caring for someone’s future.

Questions

1 What concern is raised about the little sister?

AnswerThe family asks what they should do for her when she is spoken for. They are thinking about her readiness and protection.

2 How does the Shulammite describe herself?

AnswerShe says she is a wall, with breasts like towers, and that she has become one who brings peace in her beloved's eyes.

3 How is her vineyard different from Solomon's?

AnswerSolomon's vineyard is leased to tenants for payment, but her own vineyard is hers to give. The image expresses personal authority over her love.

4 How does the book end?

AnswerA voice asks to hear the beloved, and she invites him to come away like a gazelle on the mountains of spices. The poem closes with an invitation still open.

What This Means for Us

Help young people prepare for adult commitments by listening as well as teaching. Give them room to ask questions, say what they think, and learn to keep their word. Protection should help them grow in wisdom, rather than keep them from ever making a responsible decision.

Marriage is a good gift, but it is not the only faithful future. In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul describes service to the Lord in unmarried life and seeks undivided devotion to Him. Whether preparing for marriage or living single, we can honor God with our bodies, our affection, and the promises we make.

Prayer

Lord, guard the young and teach us to respect every person's freedom and dignity. Make our love patient, mutual, truthful, and generous, and keep our welcomes sincere. Amen.

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