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1 Corinthians 6:1-8

Why Not Rather Be Wronged

1If any of you has a grievance against another, how dare he go to law before the unrighteous instead of before the saints!

2Do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if you are to judge the world, are you not competent to judge trivial cases?

3Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more the things of this life!

4So if you need to settle everyday matters, do you appoint as judges those of no standing in the church?

5I say this to your shame. Is there really no one among you wise enough to arbitrate between his brothers?

6Instead, one brother goes to law against another, and this in front of unbelievers!

7The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means that you are thoroughly defeated already. Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated?

8Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, even against your own brothers!

Berean Standard Bible

Paul is shocked that believers in Corinth are taking disputes with one another before the unrighteous for judgment. He asks whether the saints will judge the world and angels, then cannot settle ordinary matters among themselves. His questions expose a church whose confidence in its future standing has not made it wise in present relationships.

Paul is not saying every legal matter should be hidden from civil authorities. Crimes, abuse, threats, fraud, and situations where someone is unsafe require appropriate reporting and protection. His immediate concern is believers turning ordinary disputes into public contests while the church has no willingness to pursue wise reconciliation.

Paul asks whether there is no one among them wise enough to arbitrate between brothers. Then he names the deeper failure: brother goes to court against brother, and this happens before unbelievers. The community's witness is damaged when people who proclaim reconciliation refuse every patient effort to seek it.

Paul asks why they do not rather accept wrong or accept being cheated. This is not a command to let a powerful person keep harming a vulnerable person. It challenges pride in situations where both parties are fighting to win rather than seeking a just resolution. Sometimes accepting a financial loss is the lesser cost than allowing resentment and competition to control the church.

Paul says the Corinthians themselves are wronging and cheating, even their own brothers. A family can hear the warning without romanticizing conflict avoidance. Truth, restitution, mediation, and legal protection all have a place; the question is whether our pursuit of justice is actually justice or simply revenge wearing a respectable coat.

Questions

1 What surprised Paul about the Corinthian disputes?

AnswerBelievers were taking their disputes before the unrighteous instead of finding wise ways to settle matters within the Christian community.

2 What does Paul ask about the saints' future role?

AnswerHe asks whether the saints will judge the world and angels, exposing the contradiction in their inability to handle ordinary disputes.

3 What does accepting wrong not mean?

AnswerIt does not mean tolerating abuse or danger; it challenges prideful conflict while protection and civil justice remain necessary for serious harm.

4 What were the Corinthians doing to one another?

AnswerThey were wronging and cheating fellow believers, allowing their disputes to become another form of injustice.

What This Means for Us

Separate a normal disagreement from a threat, crime, or pattern of abuse. Seek mediation for the first, and use appropriate authorities and protection for the second; Christian peace never requires unsafe silence.

Before fighting to win, ask what a genuinely just repair would require. It may include repayment, an apology, a boundary, a mediator, or accepting a loss you could legally pursue.

Prayer

Wise God, make us honest about the harm we cause and the harm we face. Give us courage to protect the vulnerable, humility to seek wise mediation, and grace to pursue justice without revenge. Amen.