Judges 16:4-14
Delilah Asks for the Secret
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4Some time later, Samson fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.
5The lords of the Philistines went to her and said, “Entice him and find out the source of his great strength and how we can overpower him to tie him up and subdue him. Then each one of us will give you eleven hundred shekels of silver.”
6So Delilah said to Samson, “Please tell me the source of your great strength and how you can be tied up and subdued.”
7Samson told her, “If they tie me up with seven fresh bowstrings that have not been dried, I will become as weak as any other man.”
8So the lords of the Philistines brought her seven fresh bowstrings that had not been dried, and she tied him up with them.
9While the men were hidden in her room, she called out, “Samson, the Philistines are here!” But he snapped the bowstrings like a strand of yarn seared by a flame. So the source of his strength remained unknown.
10Then Delilah said to Samson, “You have mocked me and lied to me! Now please tell me how you can be tied up.”
11He replied, “If they tie me up with new ropes that have never been used, I will become as weak as any other man.”
12So Delilah took new ropes, tied him up with them, and called out, “Samson, the Philistines are here!” But while the men were hidden in her room, he snapped the ropes off his arms like they were threads.
13Then Delilah said to Samson, “You have mocked me and lied to me all along! Tell me how you can be tied up.” He told her, “If you weave the seven braids of my head into the web of a loom and tighten it with a pin, I will become as weak as any other man.”
14So while he slept, Delilah took the seven braids of his hair and wove them into the web. Then she tightened it with a pin and called to him, “Samson, the Philistines are here!” But he awoke from his sleep and pulled out the pin with the loom and the web.
Berean Standard Bible
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The Philistine rulers offer Delilah a large payment to discover how Samson can be subdued. Each ruler promises eleven hundred shekels of silver. Samson loves her, while they want her to use that relationship to learn the source of his strength.
She asks, and he gives three false answers in turn: seven fresh bowstrings, unused ropes, and his seven braids woven into a loom. Each time she acts on the answer and calls out that the Philistines are there. The bowstrings snap, the ropes break, and the loom's pin and web are pulled free.
Men are hidden in her room during the first two attempts. The reader knows the payment offered and the plot in progress. Samson's escapes do not end it. By the third test, Delilah is working with his hair, though she has still not learned the truth.
This passage ends with another escape. It also leaves an unmistakable pattern: information given in a relationship is repeatedly being used to bind and subdue the person who gives it.
Questions
1 What do the Philistine rulers offer Delilah?
AnswerEach promises eleven hundred shekels of silver if she discovers the source of Samson’s strength and how to subdue him.
2 What three answers does Samson give?
AnswerHe names fresh bowstrings, unused ropes, and weaving his seven braids into a loom. None of the methods subdues him.
3 What does Delilah do with each answer?
AnswerShe tests it on Samson and announces the Philistines’ arrival. Her questions are part of a plan to capture him.
4 What should happen when someone repeatedly uses trust to cause harm?
AnswerThe pattern needs to be taken seriously. Creating distance and seeking trustworthy help may be necessary; another escape does not prove the relationship is safe.
What This Means for Us
Repeated misuse of trust deserves a response. Pay attention to actions rather than relying only on affectionate words or apologies. A person being pressured may need patient support to seek help. The responsibility for manipulation belongs to the one choosing it; protecting ourselves or others does not excuse that wrongdoing.
Prayer
Lord, expose manipulation and protect those caught in it. Give us wisdom to recognize a harmful pattern and patience to help someone find support and safety. Amen.