My Family Devotion

Judges 20:12-25

The First Battles against Benjamin

12And the tribes of Israel sent men throughout the tribe of Benjamin, saying, “What is this wickedness that has occurred among you?

13Hand over the wicked men of Gibeah so we can put them to death and purge Israel of this evil.” But the Benjamites refused to heed the voice of their fellow Israelites.

14And from their cities they came together at Gibeah to go out and fight against the Israelites.

15On that day the Benjamites mobilized 26,000 swordsmen from their cities, in addition to the 700 select men of Gibeah.

16Among all these soldiers there were 700 select left-handers, each of whom could sling a stone at a hair without missing.

17The Israelites, apart from Benjamin, mobilized 400,000 swordsmen, each one an experienced warrior.

18The Israelites set out, went up to Bethel, and inquired of God, “Who of us shall go up first to fight against the Benjamites?” “Judah will be first,” the LORD replied.

19The next morning the Israelites set out and camped near Gibeah.

20And the men of Israel went out to fight against Benjamin and took up their battle positions at Gibeah.

21And the Benjamites came out of Gibeah and cut down 22,000 Israelites on the battlefield that day.

22But the Israelite army took courage and again took their battle positions in the same place where they had arrayed themselves on the first day.

23They went up and wept before the LORD until evening, inquiring of Him, “Should we again draw near for battle against our brothers the Benjamites?” And the LORD answered, “Go up against them.”

24On the second day the Israelites advanced against the Benjamites.

25That same day the Benjamites came out against them from Gibeah and cut down another 18,000 Israelites, all of them armed with swords.

Berean Standard Bible

Israel sends men through Benjamin asking for the guilty men of Gibeah, but Benjamin gathers to defend the city instead.

The first two battles go badly for Israel, even though the nation has asked the LORD who should go up. The losses prevent the reader from treating the assembled majority as automatically righteous.

And the tribes of Israel sent men throughout the tribe of Benjamin, saying, “What is this wickedness that has occurred among you?

Israel asks the LORD who should go first, but the first battle still ends in loss. The second loss prevents the reader from assuming that a large assembly is automatically right merely because it has asked a religious question. Only after weeping, fasting, and offerings does the nation receive another answer. Even then, the coming victory will bring devastating judgment.

Israel weeps, fasts, and offers burnt offerings before the third battle. The text shows a people seeking the LORD while still moving toward a war that will bring terrible destruction.

That same day the Benjamites came out against them from Gibeah and cut down another 18,000 Israelites, all of them armed with swords.

Ask how prayer changes a decision when the first attempt fails. Let the family examine whether seeking God has made it more truthful and merciful, not merely more determined.

Questions

1 What is happening in this reading?

AnswerIsrael sends men through Benjamin asking for the guilty men of Gibeah, but Benjamin gathers to defend the city instead. The first two battles go badly for Israel, even though the nation has asked the LORD who should go up.

2 Where do we see responsibility or failure?

AnswerIsrael weeps, fasts, and offers burnt offerings before the third battle. The text shows a people seeking the LORD while still moving toward a war that will bring terrible destruction.

3 What does this passage make clear?

AnswerIsrael asks the LORD who should go first, but the first battle still ends in loss. The second loss prevents the reader from assuming that a large assembly is automatically right merely because it has asked a religious question. Only after weeping, fasting, and offerings does the nation receive another answer. Even then, the coming victory will bring devastating judgment.

4 What should our household remember?

AnswerAsk how prayer changes a decision when the first attempt fails. Let the family examine whether seeking God has made it more truthful and merciful, not merely more determined.

What This Means for Us

Israel's first two battles fail even though the people have asked who should go up. Consider how prayer should change a decision after failure, and whether seeking God has made the family more truthful and merciful rather than merely more determined.

Failure can expose a decision that was made too quickly or a heart that was not listening. Let prayer produce humility, better questions, and mercy—not merely renewed determination to force the same outcome.

Prayer

Lord, teach us to ask how prayer changes a decision when the first attempt fails. Keep our words and our choices under the rule of Your word. Amen.