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Judges 21:16-25

Everyone Did What Was Right in His Own Eyes

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16Then the elders of the congregation said, “What should we do about wives for those who remain, since the women of Benjamin have been destroyed?”

17They added, “There must be heirs for the survivors of Benjamin, so that a tribe of Israel will not be wiped out.

18But we cannot give them our daughters as wives.” For the Israelites had sworn, “Cursed is he who gives a wife to a Benjamite.”

19“But look,” they said, “there is a yearly feast to the LORD in Shiloh, which is north of Bethel east of the road that goes up from Bethel to Shechem, and south of Lebonah.”

20So they commanded the Benjamites: “Go, hide in the vineyards

21and watch. When you see the daughters of Shiloh come out to perform their dances, each of you is to come out of the vineyards, catch for himself a wife from the daughters of Shiloh, and go to the land of Benjamin.

22When their fathers or brothers come to us to complain, we will tell them, ‘Do us a favor by helping them, since we did not get wives for each of them in the war. Since you did not actually give them your daughters, you have no guilt.’”

23The Benjamites did as instructed and carried away the number of women they needed from the dancers they caught. They went back to their own inheritance, rebuilt their cities, and settled in them.

24And at that time, each of the Israelites returned from there to his own tribe and clan, each to his own inheritance.

25In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

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The elders still need wives for the remaining men of Benjamin. They insist that they cannot give their own daughters because of their oath, so they devise another way around it.

At the yearly feast to the LORD in Shiloh, young women will come out to dance. The elders tell the Benjamites to hide in the vineyards, seize women from the dancers, and carry them home. They even prepare an answer for the families who will object: since the fathers did not actually give their daughters, they have not broken the oath.

The Benjamites follow the instructions. They take the women, return to their inheritance, and rebuild their cities. The other Israelites also go home. A tribe survives, but the women have been abducted to make that possible. The elders' careful wording does nothing to protect them.

The book ends with its diagnosis: there is no king in Israel, and everyone does what is right in his own eyes. The closing problem is larger than private bad decisions. An assembly of leaders can agree on a plan and still use its authority to excuse harm. Israel needs rule that is faithful to God, not merely confidence in what seems necessary.

Questions

1 What plan do the elders give the Benjamites?

AnswerThey tell them to hide near Shiloh’s festival and seize women from among the dancers to become their wives.

2 How do they plan to answer the women’s families?

AnswerThey will argue that the fathers did not give the daughters, so the oath has not been broken. The excuse protects the wording while allowing the abduction.

3 What diagnosis closes the book?

AnswerThere is no king in Israel, and everyone does what is right in his own eyes. The closing plan shows how far such judgment can go wrong.

4 How can we recognize when a technical excuse is hiding harm?

AnswerWe can ask what the action actually does to another person, rather than only whether we found a way around a rule. Their safety and dignity must remain in view.

What This Means for Us

Knowing how to defend a decision is not the same as making a faithful one. When we catch ourselves looking for a loophole, stop and consider the person affected. Bring the plan under God's word and welcome correction from someone who is free to challenge us. Obedience must reach our treatment of people, not only our explanations.

Prayer

Lord, rule our hearts when we are too confident in our own reasoning. Expose excuses that hide harm, and teach us to welcome Your correction in how we treat others. Amen.

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