Ecclesiastes 5:1-7
Draw Near to Listen
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1Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. Draw near to listen rather than to offer the sacrifice of fools, who do not know that they do wrong.
2Do not be quick to speak, and do not be hasty in your heart to utter a word before God. For God is in heaven and you are on earth. So let your words be few.
3As a dream comes through many cares, so the speech of a fool comes with many words.
4When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it, because He takes no pleasure in fools. Fulfill your vow.
5It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it.
6Do not let your mouth cause your flesh to sin, and do not tell the messenger that your vow was a mistake. Why should God be angry with your words and destroy the work of your hands?
7For as many dreams bring futility, so do many words. Therefore, fear God.
Berean Standard Bible
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The Teacher turns to worship. He says to guard your steps when you go to the house of God and draw near to listen rather than offer the sacrifice of fools. The fool does not know he is doing wrong, so religious activity can become a way to avoid self-awareness.
The instruction is direct: do not be quick to speak or hasty in your heart before God. God is in heaven and people are on earth, so words should be few. The point is not that God dislikes prayer. It is that reverence does not need a performance of many words.
Dreams can come from many cares, and a fool's speech can come from many words. Anxiety often produces talk that feels busy but does not become obedience.
The Teacher then addresses vows. If you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it. It is better not to make a vow than to make one and fail to keep it. Do not use a careless mouth to create an obligation and then call the promise a mistake. God takes those words seriously: the Teacher warns of His anger and the destruction of what the vow-maker has worked to build.
Samuel tells Saul that obeying is better than sacrifice. Jesus teaches His disciples to pray without theatrical display and to ask for daily bread, forgiveness, and deliverance. Worship becomes false when eloquent promises cover disobedience. Reverence begins with listening and doing what God has said.
Children can learn that prayer is not a contest for impressive words. Listening, telling the truth, keeping promises, and changing behavior are part of drawing near to God.
The final warning is simple: many dreams and many words can become futility. Fear God. Reverence gives worship its proper place.
Questions
1 What should a person do at the house of God?
AnswerThe person should draw near to listen rather than offer the sacrifice of fools, who act religiously while refusing to recognize their wrong.
2 How should people speak before God?
AnswerThey should not be quick with their mouths or hasty in their hearts, because God is in heaven and they are on earth.
3 What should happen after a vow is made?
AnswerIt should be fulfilled without delay, because a promise made before God is not a speech that can be forgotten when obedience becomes inconvenient.
4 What is better than making and breaking a vow?
AnswerIt is better not to make a vow than to make one and fail to fulfill it, since careless promises turn worship into empty words.
What This Means for Us
Before making a large promise to God, listen to what He has already asked of you. A sincere prayer can be short. There is no need to impress your family with words that outrun your willingness to obey.
If you have made a commitment and keep putting it off, face that honestly. Decide what fulfilling it requires and take the next step. Worship should make us more dependable when the prayer is over.
Prayer
LORD, teach us to listen before speaking. Make our prayers honest, our promises dependable, and our worship an expression of obedience rather than performance. Amen.