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Esther 1:10-12

Vashti Would Not Come

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10On the seventh day, when the king’s heart was merry with wine, he ordered the seven eunuchs who served him—Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar, and Carkas—

11to bring Queen Vashti before him, wearing her royal crown, to display her beauty to the people and officials. For she was beautiful to behold.

12Queen Vashti, however, refused to come at the king’s command brought by his eunuchs. And the king became furious, and his anger burned within him.

Berean Standard Bible

Read aloud

On the seventh day of the feast, the king's heart is merry with wine. He sends seven named eunuchs to bring Queen Vashti before the people and officials, wearing her royal crown. He wants to display her beauty.

For much of this chapter, Xerxes has been displaying the riches of his kingdom. Now he wants his guests to admire his wife. But Vashti does not come.

Queen Vashti, however, refused to come at the king's command brought by his eunuchs.

The account gives no reason for her refusal. We should not supply a speech, a motive, or details about what she was expected to wear beyond the crown named in the text. What it does make plain is the king's response: he becomes furious.

The ruler of a vast empire cannot make this one woman comply simply by sending an order. His anger exposes how dangerous another person's refusal can become when someone with great power treats it as an intolerable offense. As we read on, we need to distinguish the court's response from God's instruction for a household.

Questions

1 What does the passage say about the king before he gives the order?

AnswerIt is the seventh day, and his heart is merry with wine.

2 Why does he send for Vashti?

AnswerHe wants her to appear in her royal crown so the people and officials can see her beauty.

3 Why does Vashti refuse?

AnswerThe passage does not tell us. It records her refusal without explaining her thoughts.

4 How does the king respond?

AnswerHe becomes furious, and his anger burns within him. The account emphasizes his anger rather than giving Vashti's reasons.

What This Means for Us

People in a family deserve to be heard, not simply displayed as proof that we are doing well. Before asking a child or spouse to perform, appear in a photograph, or share something personal, consider their wishes. If they are uncomfortable, listen. Our disappointment does not give us permission to humiliate them.

Prayer

Father, help us listen when someone close to us is uncomfortable. Keep our pride from turning disappointment into anger, and teach us to treat one another with care. Amen.